What’s Mine is Yours

rings-182980_960_720pixabayTwo friends did everything together. The greatest happiness for each of them was to be in the other’s company. Day and night, whatever they were doing, they sought to be doing it in the companionship of the other one. Hours were spent talking, laughing, confiding, sharing, trusting one another. For each of them this rare and treasured friendship was precious beyond words and its nurture was their greatest priority. The woman held this friendship above all other relationships and was only ever fully alive, fully free, when in the company of her friend. The easy flowing freedom they found with one another, the deep and abiding companionship that bound them regardless of whatever else may be happening, was for her a constant source of joy and refuge in a rapidly changing and unstable world.

Then came a day when, feeling her friend’s eyes gazing at her, she looked up and suddenly became conscious of some deeper longing within him she had not previously perceived. Almost at the same instant she knew, for the first time, that the same intense yearning she saw in him also lived in her.

In that moment ‘friendship’ became too limited a word for the magnitude of what was now being unveiled between them. As beautiful as their friendship was, something even deeper was evolving. What was now beckoning was a complete, unhindered belonging – one to the other. She his, and he hers, an unlimited communion where the over-riding identity would not be I and he, or he and I, but We.

He was inviting her into a perfect oneness* with him beyond anything they had previously known. Surprising herself, she found she too desired this with all her being. A great sigh of relief, as of one who has stepped across the threshold of a long-sought home, escaped from her being. With a sense of total restfulness, she moved towards him so that she may lay her head down softly on his breast.

And at that moment everything took an unexpected turn. A familiar fear took hold of her. Drawing closer her gaze became fixed on the pure whiteness of his silk shirt, its exquisite fabric and its pristine condition, more immaculate and spotless than anything she had ever seen. ‘But how can I think of laying my head on such perfection?’ she asked herself. ‘What if my hair is not clean enough? What if I crease that beautiful pure white silk? That unsullied fabric is too good for me to just sink myself into. He deserves to wear such a fine garment, but I will spoil it if I touch it.’ And she hesitated and then stopped herself abruptly, holding herself back just inches from his chest. There she remained in her doubt and misgivings, while he waited, heartbroken at her reluctance.

What I have just related is a powerful prophetic dream I had very recently. It was one of those dreams that leaves its impact for many hours after waking. From past experience I knew the Lord was sharing something precious and important for which He wanted me to seek His meaning.

What can I say? As the dream’s message unfolded I was allowed to taste in just a small way the strength of His longing for a Bride who will grasp all He yearns to share with her in its fullness. This ‘belonging’ – we to Him and He to us – is something we, for the most part, simply do not get. And yet He longs for us to get it with an intensity that is staggering and almost impossible to convey here.

In John 15:15 Jesus surprises His disciples by telling them they are more than His servants, they are His friends. This was not what Jewish disciples were used to hearing from their rabbis. But Jesus wanted them to understand He was no normal rabbi and they were no normal disciples. They were proving their willingness to be His servants by doing what He was commanding. Obedience was the proof of their servanthood. But their willingness to share His Kingdom plans and purposes with Him would be the proof of something beyond servanthood. It would be proof of their friendship. His desire was for them to see themselves as more than servants – as friends.

Christ our Bridegroom King is both Friend and Beloved (Song of Songs 5.16). As Friend He shares His plans, eternal purposes and desires with us. As Beloved He elevates us to a place beyond even friendship, a place where all that He is, all that He has and all that He wills becomes as much ours as His, because this is what He has chosen. We belong to Him, but the greater mystery is that He and all He is – His Kingdom, His righteousness, His authority, His divine nature, His Oneness with the Father and the Spirit – also belong to us, along with our share in the fellowship of His sufferings.

But. We. Don’t. Get. It.

When the woman in my dream identified her beloved’s unsullied garment as his, not theirs, she was unable to step forward into the oneness he longed for.

We draw so close, then pull back with niggling doubts about being good enough, clean enough, gifted enough, while all the time He hungers for nothing more than a Bride who no longer questions her right to stand with Him.

We tell ourselves it’s not about us, it’s all about Him – then make it all about us by judging ourselves not quite up to scratch.

We tritely remind each other that we are ‘joint heirs’ and ‘partakers in Christ’, then nibble at crumbs and leave the feast on His table untouched.

This Oneness that the Bridegroom King craves for us to embrace, this mutual belonging to one another, is without limitation. We miss the point when we focus on how much we don’t deserve what He’s offering instead of how much He deserves to have His greatest desire responded to without hesitation or question.

Listen, this is important. The fullness of our healing from who we have been, where we have walked, what we have seen and experienced, lies in our ability to lay our heads down upon Him without hesitation, fear of judgment or questioning of our right to do so.

He knows it, and He is aching for us to know it.

In the midst of this unfolding revelation one riveting statement was whispered quietly like thunder into my spirit:

What’s Mine. Is yours.’

I don’t mind admitting I am still unravelling the implications of that simple but profound utterance and will be for a long time to come. And the implications are as overwhelming as they are astounding.

Within that statement are innumerable yes’s and immeasurable amens, but no exceptions.

And should anyone be wondering, this is not about prosperity in this present world. Jesus did not promise us temporal things that are passing away. He bestowed on us an eternal, unshakeable Kingdom (Luke 22:29).

What’s Yours is mine? All of it? And this is what you want us to move forward into Lord, no more questioning, no more hesitating, no more one step forward, two steps back?

Yep, I know right?

But this is what it means to belong to our Beloved. And this is what it means for Our Beloved to belong to us. We need to start ‘getting it’. We need to start seeking to walk in the fullness of our oneness with Christ. It’s our final frontier, and our only true destination.

It is what He desires. And that’s enough for us to desire it too.

*To clarify my use of the word ‘oneness’, I am not referring to the ‘oneness’ with creation, the universe, a higher power or unspecified supreme being promoted by New Age belief systems. I am also not referring to the oneness espoused by certain Christian denominations who do not believe in the tri-une nature of the Christian God, (i.e. Father, Son and Holy Spirit as three divine personalities in One God), commonly known as the Oneness Movement or ‘Jesus Only’ doctrine.

I believe in the Trinity and I believe that the God of the Bible is One (Deut. 6:4). Unfortunately the concept of oneness, or perfect unity, has become associated with cults and heresies and many believers have become afraid of the concept as a result.

Jesus spoke of being one with His Father and prayed for His disciples to become one with each other and with Him and the Father (Jn. 10:30; 17:21). Spiritual oneness is a sound Biblical concept taught in both the Old and New Testaments. It is to this Biblical oneness between God and humanity that I am referring in this article.

© Cheryl McGrath, Bread for the Bride, 2016 and beyond.   Copyright Notice: Permission is granted to freely reproduce any Bread for the Bride articles in emails or internet blogs, unaltered, and providing this copyright notice is included.     To permanently display an article on any static website please contact me for permission.



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11 replies

  1. Wow, wow. It’s hard enough to grasp that I may deserve… but that He deserves and somehow I am denying Him in my own self imposed limitations. Oh the freedom to love Him more !!!

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  2. How so indescribably refreshing and beautiful this post is! It’s oh So straight from the heart of God! It always amazes me when I read your posts because all the ones that I have read are just like the Lord really affirming whatever He’s been dealing with me on. Every time I pick a post to read it’s so Amazingly The Right One at the time. His Wonderful, perfect ways Always amaze me. It’s so blessed to find someone else who just simply longs to sit and Adore our Beautiful Saviour! However, it is very Sad…and I told the Lord this…that you are So Many continents away 😦 I so desire someone closer by who understands. All in His time though, I’ve learned. And, yes, it gets so frustrating trying to Explain how extremely Simple God’s heart and desire for us is! There’s no way to humanly express how much He just wants US to be near Him with total, undivided attention…which He so Rightly Deserves! But I understand now that I just need to keep praying for them and our Lord will work in them. Patients is a hard one for me…we still got a Ways to go! ;>

    Sorry, I could go on for days and days.

    Anyway, I’m very thankful for you and that you are so sensitive to the Holy Spirit and the Father’s heart for us and His precious Son! I pray that His Words through you (and many others) will soak into many many hearts! May the Lord richly bless and keep you and your family.

    Leila

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    • Leila, thankyou for your prayers. Please keep praying that the messages on Bread for the Bride will be blown by the wind of the Holy Spirit to those who will be encouraged and edified by them. It is wonderful the way the Spirit works to affirm what He is doing in the lives of individuals. Thankyou for your kind words. Many of us desire someone closer who understands and walks the same path, but it is not always possible at this stage of our journey. But we can encourage one another through the means we have at hand, like email, blogs, etc., Thankyou for your encouragement today!

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  3. Beautiful! Thank you for writing, for being open to hear and lay out what he has given your heart to speak. I shared this with a handful of friends, the ones I heard back from, stunning was the overall consensus.

    Back in 2012, hmm, could it be? Maybe 2013, a friend ordered and sent me a book titled His Desire is For Me, by Bob Emery. Written from the Song of Songs. It shook me. I read it as a daily devotional back to back. Your post here has stirred up the desire to pull it off my shelves. During that time I was on a sabbatical, if you will, from a place of daily internet writing and presence and distraction. At the end of that time, and after reading the book twice, I found a very large wall hanging that read: “I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine.” Which hangs still in my reading room.

    With great love Cheryl,
    Becky

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    • Hi Becky, Thankyou for passing this on. I love it when Bread for the Bride posts are shared around the Body of Christ. It’s interesting to me that in Song of Songs the Shulemite bride progresses from “My beloved is mine and I am his” (Sng. 2:16) to “I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine” (Sng. 6:3). The focus changes from what is hers, to what is his. That’s the journey we’re on, isn’t it? I’m glad you’re a fellow traveller. (Will be answering your latest email very soon btw!)

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  4. “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions – it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus,” Eph 2:-6

    I remember being so blessed by these verses at one time and on sharing them with someone at my church I think their response was caution and reminded me it is not a current reality but ‘positionally’ it is true – which I’m not sure what was meant by that. But I can’t help but think if that is God’s viewpoint and desire shouldn’t we just embrace that reality and rejoice in it and accept the fuller meaning of the relationship we have in Him? The tense of the verse seems to tell me it is a fact it is already done!

    Thank you for your post!

    -Leanne

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    • Hi Leanne, I guess the question is does God limit Himself to our ‘current reality’ or does He live in eternal reality? I agree with you that we should embrace His reality, rejoice in it and accept its fuller meaning. We are called to be Kingdom dwellers, even in this life!

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  5. Beautiful post, Cheryl. Love the prophetic dream and subsequent revelations He is unfolding and unfolding and … 🙂

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  6. Thanks so much Cheryl! That was so rich and rewarding to read and so confirming of what I shared with a group of disciples yesterday. I cannot wait to share this with them when I see them again.
    We must not hold ourselves back even in the slightest. God, please give us this realisation deep within and the grace to embrace You completely !

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